For years, that “F*** it, I’ll figure it out” mindset was exactly how I ran my business. I said yes to everything—mostly out of fear of losing work—and then just made it happen. In the early days, it worked. But over time, as requests piled up and other trades didn’t pull their weight, I became the jack of all trades, master of none—doing whatever it took to keep jobs moving and my schedule on track.
Eventually, all those yeses caught up with me. The work I once loved became the very thing drowning me. Looking back, I should have said no a thousand times and trusted far less.
My mentor, on his deathbed, told me something that stuck: Legacy is just a thought. You’ll be forgotten, and life moves on. Don’t be a slave to the work—be a slave to living and enjoying life.
Those words are my compass now. Sure, I have regrets. But I also have hope, and there’s still time to live differently.